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Vibrating Sex Toys For Men

Tuesday, February 23rd, 2010
Sam W. John asked:

Even if you have an active sex life together with your partner, you and your partner might be looking for more exciting techniques to heat up at night in your bed. There are a lot of ways to satisfy your partner, by using different techniques such as using sex toys.

One of the most popular sex gadgets is the vibrating cock ring. This kind of sex toy can actually make you sizzle through the night. Because of its very unique function of combining two sex gadgets in one. This specialized sex toy is a combination of a vibrator and a cock ring. By having this vibrating cock ring, you can experience two sensations with just one sex gadget.

For those people who are newbies in using this kind of sex toy, this vibrating cock ring is just right for you. You do not have to be a skilled sex addict to be able to use this toy. Once the vibrating cock ring is in the right place and turned on, the only thing for you to do is have sex. Applying this ring just as simple as putting on your sock.

Just simply pull the ring up with your fingers just like a rubber band. Pull it over around the penis and your ball until it is properly placed. Just relax and don't put on added tension, let the ring slowly contract into its original size. Compared to other vibrators, vibrating cock rings do not need the use of your hands, making your hands free to stroke and massage your partner during the sexual intercourse.

If you do not want to spend much on a sex toy, choose a vibrating cock ring. Most cock rings are made up of silicon making it more affordable than others. Plus it is easier to clean, use and it is rechargeable. You can play with your vibrating cock ring to maximize your pleasure. Experimenting on how to use it is a nice thing to do during your sexual activity.

It has a rubbery material, so you cannot avoid instances wherein your pubic hair may stick unto the rubber. You can simply avoid this irritating situation by making sure that your genitals are properly lubricated. When taking off your ring you have to carefully pull it to avoid damaging your pubic hair.

Always make sure that your hands are dry before putting it on. You may lose your grip of the ring, because of its rubbery material. Different positions can have different effects on the cock ring. Be sure to go on one position to the other one at a time. Just by rotating the cock ring you can create a different new position. By doing this you can provide greater stimulation on your scrotum and perineum area. You can add a more intense sensation on your penis.

These cock rings are not only design for men and women, lesbian and gay can also used it for more exciting sexual intercourse. Enjoy the unique experience of this sex toy and make your partner scream for more.

Porter

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The Amazing Range Of Sex Toys

Sunday, January 31st, 2010
Abbie Acworth asked:

The variety of sex toys is surprising. Sex toys vary from purely male or purely female sex toys to toys that can be used by both sexes. There are also some sex toys that can also be classified as sex aids or marital aids.

The Purpose Of Sex Toys

Some sex toys aid the man's erection, stimulate the female genitals to become more sensitive or provide a different feel to 'normal' sex. Other sex toys provide an 'environment' for variations in sex, for example so called orgy bed sheets. Sometimes they are used to help a person who has difficulty with unaided sex to achieve sexual satisfaction. However most sex toys provide a new way to directly stimulate the male or female genitals to achieve sexual satisfaction.

Using sex toys can provide new experiences and variation in the sexual experience. It can also provide a fantasy element for enhancing or revitalising a relationship.

The usual expectation is that a sex toy provides direct stimulation of the genitals in foreplay and/or during sexual intercourse or as a means to obtain orgasm through only the stimulation provided by the sex toy.

Types of Sex Toys

Vibrating Sex Toys

Probably the most well known sex toys are 'vibrators' which, as the name suggests, provide stimulation of the genitals using vibration. They are mainly used to stimulate the clitoris, but may also be used to stimulate any other part of the female body or that of a man's.

The simplest of these are pencil or wand shaped (though normally thicker than a pencil). They often have an internal battery (or two) which powers a small electric motor. Sometimes the battery pack and controller are external and connected to the vibrator by a wire. This motor is fitted with a small, out of balance, weight attached to the shaft. As this weight rotates it throws the motor and vibrator into a small circular movement which causes the vibration you feel.

With a vibrator that has a controller, as the power is increased the speed of the motor increases and with it both the rate and strength of vibration. Both the strength and rate of vibration effects how stimulating you find the sex toy. The best effect may not be as strong and as fast as possible. The optimum settings may well change as your degree of excitement builds. To get the best results it is worth buying a vibrator which is controllable.

Different vibrators will have different characteristics and you may well find you prefer one combination much more than another and your preference may even vary depending on which part of your body you are stimulating.

More recently electronic vibrator controllers have appeared which provide not only the static control of power/speed but also allow you to select patterns of power pulses and surges. These can be very effective.

There are also other vibrating sex toys such as butterfly stimulators and vibrating penis rings.

Other Powered Sex Toys

There are some sex toys that use other ways to provide mechanical stimulation. These usually depend on a motor that makes the sex toy continually change its shape which provides a sort of rotational movement or makes it move back and forth. The back and forth movements are sometimes powered by an air pump rather than a motor. The movements have been used to create, for example, mechanical licking tongues, vibrators that 'penetrate' the vagina and mouth simulators to give a man a 'blow job'.

On a bigger scale and much more expensive, there are 'sex machines' that incorporate thrusting and vibrating dildos.

Combination Sex Toys

So far we have covered vibrating, moving and thrusting sex toys. As you may have guessed these are all offered in a bewildering array of combinations.

A common combination in many 'Rabbit Style' vibrators is clitoral stimulation using vibrations and vaginal stimulation using movement and sometimes a thrusting motion as well.

Many sex toys add varying textures to their surfaces; a dildo or vibrator may have ridges or soft spikes or a rippled shape.

Sensation Change Sex Toys

Some sex toys rather than provide vibrating or moving stimulation, change the feel of sex.

For instance there are a variety of sleeves to put over the penis to provide different sensations for both partners while engaged in penetrative sex.

There are rings that squeeze the base of the penis and/or tighten the scrotum that assist the man's erection and also changes his sensations. There are penis extenders and thickeners which may give a man's partner greater sensations during penetration.

There are a wide variety of lubricants that can significantly change the feel of sex.

There are PVC and Polyurethane bed sheets that are water and oil proof that can be used for slippery or messy sex.

Why Use A Sex Toy?

A good question is: why do people use a sex toy? Surely fingers, tongues, penises, clitorises and vaginas etc all provide great sexual stimulation and enjoyment.

Well, apart from therapeutic uses (eg erection assistance), sex toys can drive the imagination (being taken by a machine), provide variety (new ways to do old things), vary the stimulating effects in otherwise normal sex (penis sleeves) and some can provide experiences not possible with 'normal body parts' (particularly vibrating sex toys and electro-stimulation).

Where To Start

If you have not tried a sex toy before and don't yet have an idea of what you might like, try one of the simpler vibrators first. Most probably you will enjoy the experience and then start to wonder what other delights can be found with more sophisticated vibrators and other sex toys ...

If you then find you do enjoy sex toys try out a few others and find what suits you. Above all, have fun trying them out!

Dana

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Why Do We Love Sex Toys?

Saturday, December 12th, 2009
bella asked:

Why do we love sex toys?... Well I can only speak for myself on this one, for quite a long period I was single and at first I was very skeptical about using sex toys and self satisfying myself. However, being invited to a naughty knicker party in my mid 20s, I soon realised that there was a lot more women just like me, single and in relationships, and all of them wanting more of a sex life. It was then that I bought my first vibrator and I've never looked back.

Now that I'm in a stable relationship and have been for a few years, instead of getting rid of any sex toys that I owned, me and my partner enjoy using them to enhance our sex life. We now have a box full (quite a large box actually) of sex toys and sex aids of all shapes and sizes, from cock rings and G-Spot vibrators to double penetration dildos and butt plugs, and we use them alone as well as with each other. A lot of people feel that it may make their partners feel inadequate, or make them think that they're unable to fulfil your needs, but in our experience we find that it really enhances our sex life and makes it a lot easier to talk about what we like and dislike.

Having used various sex toys over the course of a few years, and I have used my fair share, both on my own and with my partner. I believe that only good things can come from injecting a little novelty and some surprises into your sex life. Nowadays there are numerous sex shops in almost every city all over the world and even more sex toy stores online. So it's not very hard finding sex toys, the chances are that you'll have a least one sex toy shop close to where you live, if you don't or are maybe a little shy about going into a shop and purchasing a sex toy yourself, there are plenty of online sex toy stores to choose from (like ours for example).  Where you can find a whole world of erotic accessories such as sexy lingerie, vibrators, dildos, fleshlights and bondage equipment.

I find that sex can solve most problems between a man and a woman, so why not spice it up a little by using some sex toys?

Have fun.

Bella.

Alaina

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Sex Toys are Simply a Gateway to Pleasure

Tuesday, October 6th, 2009
Paul Rodgers asked:

Today’s society is becoming more « sex-positive » and sex toys have become a more accepted part of a healthy loving relationship. Adult toys are becoming increasingly popular among the younger generation of this world. They are perfectly normal and natural to use with a partner or alone. It goes without saying that sex toys are best enjoyed with no guilt attached. They require no justification; sex toys are pleasure for pleasure's sake. In many ways, sex toys are the final stumbling block on the path to sexual openness.

There are many misconceptions that sex toys are only used by people who choose to remain abstinent, do not currently have sexual partners, or by gay men and lesbians. Many people assume that sex toys are purchased to fulfill some sort of sexual inadequacy. Others feel that sex toys are for 'maama men' who need to satisfy their women but are sexually deficient and need sex aids to help them out. I do not mean to hurt your pride but what concerns the sex, adult sex toys are much ahead us.

Because our society is in conflict over the rightness of sexual pleasure, it is not surprising that sex toys are subject to numerous myths and controversies. While sex toys are commonly used for solo sex, many couples enjoy using sex toys together, regardless of their gender or sexual orientation. Most sex toys are perfectly safe, as long as they are used with common sense. Sex toys are fantastic for keeping variety alive and having a good time together.

Relationship

Sometimes it’s hard to communicate our sexual desires to our partners, especially when wanting to bring something new into a sexual relationship. Your partner needs to understand where you’re coming from, what you’re interested in doing, and how you will respect their boundaries, in order for sex toys to be a healthy, pleasurable part of your relationship.

Some couples find that a healthy relationship can comfortably accommodate the addition of sex toys. Bringing sex toys into your relationship will bring the two of you closer mentally, and physically, and will leave you both smiling all day long. After all, we all know that sexual satisfaction is an important function within relationships.

Frequent intimacy, especially in the context of a caring relationship, extends life expectancy, enhances mental health and mitigates a host of physical ailments, research shows. Far from merely a joke, sex toys can help strengthen and improve people's sexual relationship with themselves and with their partners.

Keeping passion alive in a relationship takes work, it doesn't just happen on it's own. Conquering the skill of effective communication is the best step you can take to safeguard your relationship from many of the destructive forces that many couples face. However, some couples find that a healthy relationship can comfortably accommodate the addition of sex toys, while others may find that after some experimentation they prefer not to use them.

Conclusion

Used alone or to enhance your current sex life, whatever your fantasy, sex toys are true works of art that are guaranteed to tickle your imagination and ignite the passion within. Sex toys are a great way to add a bit of variety to your sex life so whatever you choose, enjoy.

 

 

Aubree

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