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Christian Sex Advice – Sex Toys Allowed?

Friday, February 12th, 2010
Chess McDoogle asked:

Among the Christian sex advice sought out by Christian couples, the subject of sex toys often comes up.  Are they allowed in a Christian relationship?  Is it considered sin allowing such things to aid in our intimacy?  Here is some sound Christian sex advice regarding intimacy toys.

Lotions and oils.  Many couples don't realize that sex toys can be as simple as erotic lotions or hot oils.  These are perfectly fine to use during intimacy, and a great, and very simple, way to spice up pleasurable sex.  Videos.  Pornographic videos have also been linked to the category of "toys" or intimacy aids.  These should generally not be allowed in a Christian relationship.  The exception has to do with instructional video which may be explicit in nature, but may provide the couple with the help they need in achieving new, exciting, and pleasurable forms of intimacy. Safety. The vast majority of intimacy aids can be narrowed down to the question - are they safe?  If they present any harm then by all means they should not be allowed to be used during your intimacy.  You definitely want to focus on safety first.  Agreement on toys.  Christian sex advice often stresses that couples should wholeheartedly agree on their positions and practices.  This also holds true for toys.  If one of you is uncomfortable with a particular toy then it should be excluded.  Their are many other pleasure aids available that you should be able to find which you both can agree on and derive added pleasure from. No Substitute.  Finally, intimacy toys should not be a substitute for sex and pleasure between one another.  They should only aid, assist, or compliment the pleasures of sex.

Lillie

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Improve Your Christian Sex Life

Monday, February 8th, 2010
Chess McDoogle asked:

There are several reasons why you should take action and improve your Christian sex life immediately. But mainly it comes down to the idea that sex is a wonderful gift from God and something which should be practiced and improved on if there are any lacking elements. Here's how to improve your intimacy immediately:

1. Learn what's accepted.

Oftentimes what is holding couples back from having the wonderful and exciting intimate life that they should be having, is conscious or subconscious worry about what sex practices are sinful and which are safe. By researching what is allowable, your reservations or concerns will likely be lifted and you can proceed to practice intimacy within the rules. Many Christian couples are pleasantly surprised at all that is actually allowable within Christian intimacy.

2. Christian sex toys.

Now, these are not any elaborate devices or contraptions as one usually associates sex toys with, but rather intimacy aids or toys can be as simple as erotic oils or lotions which will add another whole dimension to your intimacy. What often needs improving, is that certain spark that will in turn create much more exciting and erotic intimacy between one another. A toy can be the needed spark to kick start your sex life back to where it should be.

3. Christian sex manuals.

Here is an easy, quick, and highly effective way you can improve sex. Simply by reading a few tips in a Christian intimacy manual can greatly increase and improve sex. Many tips and techniques are included to make sex becomes more fun, exciting, and pleasurable, as well as solutions to particular sexual problems which often occur in Christian relationships.

Aaron

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