Archive for September, 2009

The Anthology of Sex Toys

Friday, September 25th, 2009
Leila Gabrielle asked:

Sex toys have survived civilization after civilization. They have been molded from every possible material, into every size and shape imaginable.

The sex toy is a true testament to men and women's urge to pleasure and satisfy. The life of the sex toy can be traced back through a massive time line and is believed to start as far back as pre-historic times where rocks were smoothed down into the shape of an erect penis shaft, although historians still argue this.

The next sign of sex toys is in the early Egyptian period with artwork showing nearly nude women dancing, holding large penis shaped sculptures for Osiris, God of life, death, and fertility. It is also said that to increase their fertility, Egyptian women would masturbate a top the stone of Phallus, God of the sun. The trend continues and travels to Greece, where the creation of the olisbos occurs. Olisbos is Greek for the modern day word dildo. The Greeks are one of the only civilizations to see masturbation as a gift from the gods for both men and women alike. They used such materials as wood, leather, and stone to make dildos.

Using these materials however could prove irritating, so it is no wonder that the Greeks were the first to use a lubricant with their sex toys, olive oil. Next we travel to China during the Han Dynasty where huge molds of realistic penis' made of bronze were discovered in a tomb and thought to be used by rich palace tenants on their concubines. These are indeed the first form of today's penis extension.

The next stop in the history the sex toy is not the invention of a new toy but rather that of a new material. In the mid 19th century rubber was able to be vulcanized (treating it at high temperatures with sulfur) and became more flexible and increased its elasticity. Perfect for every type of toy thinkable.

Following the milestone in rubber improvements came the invention of the first vibrating sex toy. Although in that time it was promoted as a massager and instead of being used for sexual stimulation, it was said to be a cure for a then common medical condition for women called female hysteria. Female Hysteria was believed to consist of anxiety, irritation and deviant sexual fantasies among other symptoms. The word hysteria itself is Greek for suffering uterus. Now obviously this so called disease was later chalked up to be plain old sexual arousal for women, but the vibrator lived on and continued to evolve.

Vibratos, along with many other types of sex toys were now being used in the newest form of motion picture cinema, pornography. No longer could catalogs such as sears sell vibrators as massagers when it was clearly evident what they were becoming associated with. This however, would not discourage the sex toy. Soon the vibrator and dildo became one.

The first vibrating dildo was made in the early 20th century and the evolution did not stop there. KY jelly was invented to assist in comfort and lubrication but was only available by prescription. It wasn't until 1980 that it was made available for over the counter purchase. Soon after that came the use of latex rubber. This was an even softer, lighter, and more pliable than vulcanized rubber. Quickly becoming the new material for dildos, vibes, and even condoms.

Time continued and times changed. The introduction of Playboy magazine and other such publications only kept the momentum of sex toys moving forward as more people saw and accepted the purpose of toys themselves. The love moment in the 1960's also played a huge factor in bringing acceptance to sex toys as masturbation and self-satisfaction became much more prominent in conversation and practice.

To combat the growing popularity of sex toys some states in the U.S. such as Alabama and Georgia went as far as banning them all together, punishable by fines and even jail time. Much debate was had about this saying it was against constitutional rights, and the ban was eventually overturned.

We are now in the 21st century watching shows like the Sue Johanson Sex Show and Sex in the City; the acceptance and popularity of the sex toy have never been higher. Dildos, vibrators, extensions, and pumps; anything your sexual appetite can desire, can surely be fulfilled. Without a doubt, the sex toy is definitely here to stay.

Jimena

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The Coming Together of Couples and Sex Toys

Friday, September 25th, 2009
Jenna Stevenson asked:

Many people have owned, seen, or thought of owning sex toys, but many couples do not explore sex toys together. Perhaps it is because many people view sex toys as dirty or something that does not need to be done within a marriage or serious relationship. Or perhaps it is simply because we have a tendency to be embarrassed about such matters. If more couples would come together and realize that sex toys and a playful attitude towards sex and their time together in the bedroom then a great deal of people would be happier with their sex lives. Sex toys can allow couples to experiment with one another and their own sexuality in new and exciting ways.

Sex toys don't have to be looked at in a negative light like many people look at them. They aren't dirty or even anything to be embarrassed about. Of course, the vast majority of people wouldn't give rave reviews over a new sex toy of some sort over dinner with their family, but these toys aren't anything that shouldn't be enjoyed. In fact, they are produced to be enjoyed by consenting adults that have nothing to be embarrassed about! And, when couples can enjoy such things they can learn how to interact sexually in new and exciting ways.

It's a great idea for couples to talk about sex and sex toys as soon as they begin a sexual relationship. The longer you wait to talk about such matters, the more awkward it will become. Even if you've never owned any sex toys in the past, you should be able to express your desire to go shopping for some toys that will accentuate your already steamy sex life. Going shopping for the first time can be a little awkward, but that is why the couple should decide to share all of their feelings while shopping! They should be able to express what they like, what they find interesting, and what they think is absolutely disgusting. Just the sex toy shopping experience can bring a couple closer together because they'll learn new things about one another.

There are a lot places to buy sex toys, but buying them online is a great idea if one or both people are feeling a bit nervous about it. Buying online will allow you to see full color, vivid pictures of all of the sex toys you could ever imagine without actually stepping foot in an adult store! When you order sex toys online everyone can get what they want and it will arrive at your front door within a matter of days so that the play can begin! Some toys you'll find that you really enjoy as a couple while others you can simply play or not play with.

Couples may find that they only pull out their sex toys once a month, but it's the knowledge that there are always new and fun ways to please one another that makes sex toys so much fun. Whether you plan to play with them all of the time or every once and again, sex toys can be a very good thing for couples that have just begun and those that have been together for quite some time.

Samantha

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California Exotics Colt Xtreme Turbo Bullet

Friday, September 25th, 2009
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Multi fun with battery pack pleasure

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  • Versatile Stimulation
  • Powerful
  • 2 Speed
  • Waterproof
  • Non Slip Grip

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California Exotics Diving Dolphin Stimulator

Friday, September 25th, 2009
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Beautiful blue jelly stimulator designed to enhance your erotic experience with its unique clitorisoris and testicular vibrating action. It has dual controls to give two different feelings at the same time. Go ahead and enhance your love life. You must be at least 18 years or older to purchase this item. The purchase of this item is prohibited by law in the states of Alabama and Utah.

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  • For Couples
  • Multi-speed
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California Exotics Miracle Massager Accessory

Thursday, September 24th, 2009
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Miracle Massager Wand Attachment

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  • Soft Jelly Material
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